1. Continue to love both parents without guilt or disapproval (subtle or overt) by either parent or other relatives.
2. Be repeatedly reassured that the divorce
is not their fault.
3. Be reassured they are safe and their
needs will be provided for.
4. Have a special place for his or her own belongings at both parents' residences.
5. Visit both parents regardless of what the adults in the situation feel, and regardless
of convenience, or money situations.