If there's anything positive that's come out of the rash of
violence by young people that we've experienced both in and out
of schools in the past two years, it is the renewed sense of the
importance of communication with our children. When children
become violent, you can be sure that there was a breakdown of
communication somewhere. Most often, of course, the breakdown in c
ommunication starts in the family.
Many people believe that no matter how good the
communication within the family children and teenagers can hide
their feelings and behavior from their parents.
Obviously this is true. Most of us as teens kept part of our
life private and didn't share some important aspect of our life
with our parents. On the other hand, there is no question in my
mind that if you teach and practice communication skills with
your child from a young age, you are less likely to be caught
unawares of what your teenager is thinking and doing.